INSECURITY
Many writers of fiction are pathologically insecure. They are doubters, second-guessers, Monday-morning quarterbacks, and pessimists. Their literary glass is always half empty. To survive, novelists must develop a thick skin. They take criticism badly, mostly because they are their own worst critics. Thus, I am not a big fan of writers’ critique groups. I had a particularly bad experience once. I found myself at the first meeting being lavishly praised by one participant and unmercifully shredded by another. I might have weathered that, but both had read the same book! One thought I had real talent. The other thought I had real nerve publishing such drivel. Neither offered suggestions. Just gushes or scorn. I left, never to return. I believe that neither critique had merit, since neither person had written a book. They wanted to be novelists. A writers’ group of published authors might be more valuable. They are likely to be more circumspect in their comments, good or bad.